Author Archives: Jay Butchko
What You May Not Know About Divorce
Most of us know someone who is stuck in an unhappy marriage—probably several people, in fact. With all the misery we hear about, plenty of people are still getting married, hoping that their love story is immune to the wretchedness they see elsewhere. But nearly as common as marriage in this country is divorce…. Read More »
Road Rage In Maryland
It’s a grim problem that has led to thousands of injuries and hundreds of fatalities across the United States: road rage. Here in Maryland, cases of road rage that spiral into serious incidents are setting off alarms; the incidents are all too frequent, and all too dangerous: Recent Incidents in Maryland If you think… Read More »
Did You Rely On A CPAP Machine That Made You Sick?
Sleep apnea: it’s a condition that affects millions of people, many of whom literally stop breathing while asleep. It’s a frightening diagnosis, but one that has a pretty simple intervention: a simple medical device that ensures consistent breathing throughout a sleep cycle. What a relief, right? You bet– unless the use of the device… Read More »
Happy New Year! Let’s Get Divorced
Every word, every gesture, every moment of the holidays with your spouse felt phony. You stuck it out, but it wasn’t easy, and you really can’t imagine much more. You’ve been pretty miserable for a long time, and, to tell the truth, you haven’t done much to contribute to the relationship yourself. So even… Read More »
Parallel Parenting With A Toxic Ex
Effective co-parenting is purported to help kids survive a divorce with peak emotional health. Even so, it is oftentimes easier said than done. Even for individuals who are truly committed to working hard to ensure kids feel loved and supported, and who recognize the importance of having their ex in their kids’ lives, it… Read More »
Bus Crash Results In Injuries
Dozens of passengers suffered injuries when a University of Maryland commuter bus careened into a light pole on Route 1 in Prince George’s County. While none of the injuries appeared to be serious at first glance, many of the passengers were understandably shaken by the event. What to Do in this Kind of Event … Read More »
The Right Of First Refusal May Be A Good Idea In Your Parenting Agreement
Sharing custody of children following divorce is a guarantee that there will be times when the parent who has custody finds themselves in need of childcare so that parent can work, socialize, or otherwise be away from home. When this happens, the other co-parent may prefer to pick up a little extra time with… Read More »
Keep Kids Safe
There is nothing worse than sending children off to school, only to discover that they will be spending an extended length of time in the hospital–or may never come home again at all—due to a traffic accident that occurred on the way to or from school. It’s every parent’s nightmare—one that too many Maryland… Read More »
When Men Suffer Domestic Violence In Their Marriage
If you are a man who experiences violence at home at the hands of your wife, what are your options going forward? Domestic violence (DV), is a serious issue, regardless of who is the victim, and while getting someone to listen to you and believe you is an issue for both genders, for men,… Read More »
Positive Changes In Maryland Divorce Law
Many are cheering the changes to Maryland’s notoriously onerous divorce laws that come into effect in October 2023, noting that the time and drudgery associated with getting a divorce in the state will lessen to a significant extent. Welcome to No-Fault Divorce One of the biggest and most welcome changes in the law involves… Read More »
